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Sticky Note: March 2025

Sticky Note: March 2025

Tomorrow marks the last week of my second trimester. I celebrated by chugging 50 grams of glucose — as is tradition.

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I can only assume the final months of this pregnancy will speed by at an even faster clip than they already have been, in direct contrast to the pace at which I am personally moving these days. (I always thought “waddling” was an exaggerated Hollywood cliché until I experienced its inevitability firsthand). The mental math is different this time around, though. I’m not so much counting down the days until my due date as I am counting down the days I have left before my attention is split in two directions.

At various points throughout the day, my son has been asking to “take a little rest” on my shoulder. Sometimes he will turn to me out of the blue and say, “happy to see you.” Even his tantrums and mood swings retain a degree of preciousness to me amidst the hormonal haze of a fast-approaching sibling, ditto for the time it requires to follow him all the way down an emotional rabbit hole and bring us both back up for air. He loves when I tell him to take a deep breath in, then out. To calm his body down. Whenever he is perched on top of the mound of my stomach, his sister between us, I think to myself, here we all are.


Below the paywall in this month’s Note, you’ll find:

  • My favorite non-maternity striped long-sleeved T-shirt that still covers my entire bump, thus avoiding the Winnie the Pooh trap (and looks great when I’m not pregnant, too).

  • An Etsy shop that has become my new go-to for beautiful, reasonably-priced, handmade baby gifts.

  • A small, very easy, and dare I say transformative (!) home decor upgrade.

  • Some thoughts on how to successfully style leopard print for The Current Moment (with a mini-curation of fun secondhand links under $100).

I hope everyone has the chance to get outside and huff a little bit of pollen this week 😌.


The outfit I hyper-fixated on…

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