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Nov 20Liked by Harling Ross Anton

Might I recommend the Ilia Limitless Mascara as a “similar but slightly better” alternative to Glossier. The majority of my makeup is now Ilia and am super satisfied.

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Nov 20Liked by Harling Ross Anton

Best mascara ever! I’ve tried so many kinds and keep coming back to this one

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I’m influenced!!

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Nov 21Liked by Harling Ross Anton

Harling you influenced me to Ilia’s serum

And never had a better one ❤️ this truly is a great brand

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Hope you love it! My one caveat is that it smells weird but it’s not terrible, just a distinct smell

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lol i've noticed that with some of their other products too!

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thank you !! does it tube like the glossier one? i hate washing off mascara

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Nov 20·edited Nov 20Liked by Harling Ross Anton

No it’s not tubing, but I agree! Washes easily in my experience. 🩷

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Nov 20Liked by Harling Ross Anton

this was so soothing to read. thank you!

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So glad to hear it ❤️

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Nov 20Liked by Harling Ross Anton

Not sure if you’ll see this, but the Yoto is a better alternative to the Tonie, imo. Way more portable and long lasting. I got one for my kiddo when she was 4, she’s still using it as a 6 year old.

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have heard great things about both but that Tonie is easier for younger kids to operate, so that's why I was leaning in that direction! my son is 15 months

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Nov 20Liked by Harling Ross Anton

We opted for the Yoto for my daughter when she was one and she picked up how to use it quickly. I didn’t love the idea of having all the figurines. But I know lots of Tonie users that love it

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Nov 21Liked by Harling Ross Anton

FWIW our 1 year old loves her Yoto mini! I love the built in radio and that’s what we listen to the most.

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Nov 21Liked by Harling Ross Anton

P.s my son even plays with the figurines sometimes and I think they look lovely when put on a shelf :) for older kids they have options that look more like a cassette :)

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Nov 21Liked by Harling Ross Anton

I don’t have the Yoto, so can’t say if it’s better but for what it’s worth we have the Tonie and our sons loves it (also started around 15min months) and still going very strong now at 3.5. Also love that they are adding a wider range for older kids (7+) so I think we’ll get a lot of use also in the long term

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really helpful to know!

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My goddaughter also has the yoto! She’s 18 months and loves it.

Once nice feature is that you can make your own recordings. So her grandparents and aunts and uncles and cousins can send voicenotes to her mom and she’ll copy them onto a card.

Then my goddaughter can listen to her Grammy reading her favorite poem whenever she wants.

But I think either tonie or yoto, great screen free thing for kids!

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I was just going to ask how you decided on a Tonie vs a Yoto! I have neither but I am leaning towards the Yoto because I heard it's easy for the figurines to get lost, and I love the feature of being able to record me reading a book to her. But... I haven't made a final decision yet. All I know is that she's obsessed with getting to our phones already and I need a better distraction for her 🙃

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Nov 20Liked by Harling Ross Anton

I got my now 5 year old the Tonie box two years ago and it is still the most consistently used toy in the house. We absolutely love it.

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love to hear this!

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Nov 21Liked by Harling Ross Anton

Same. Used for hours a day and makes car rides so much for fun for everyone

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Nov 20Liked by Harling Ross Anton

I also see Black Friday as stock up time. My usuals are:

instant angel

cosrx snail mucin masks - my pregnant skin loves this even more than my non pregnant skin did!

youth to the people kale cleanser

tshirts from Madewell and re/done

macys cashmere wraps - basic and classic, usually appropriate for someone I’m gifting

Taper candles - I am flexible on brand

Cloth napkins - I love to have a stockpile

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perfect list

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Nov 20Liked by Harling Ross Anton

I simply must know about your Miele vacuum! I'm asking for it for bday/Christmas lol

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It’s simply the best and made me love vacuuming.

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seconding this!

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Nov 20Liked by Harling Ross Anton

And thank you for always including baby buys. So helpful and I love your taste in infant clothing!

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Definitely what I’m shopping for most these days! ❤️

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Nov 21Liked by Harling Ross Anton

Thank you Harling for this great inspiration ❤️ will definitely compile a list like that. Plus thank you for great toddler inspiration as always 😍

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Nov 20Liked by Harling Ross Anton

+1 for Blueland! Have been using their dishwasher and laundry tablets for years now. Really love how eco friendly they are though have noticed the prices creeping up over the years...

For dish soap, we just use diluted Dr. Bronner’s (dilution instructions are on the bottle)

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good to know!!

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Seconding the love for Blueland dishwasher tablets! Love that they’re completely plastic free and they work great

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Nov 20Liked by Harling Ross Anton

Which ski jacket did you get for Austin? Also can confirm that the blue land dish soap is not great but the dishwasher tablets are awesome

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an arcteryx shell!

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So good!

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Yoto has way more educational offerings/whole series, and looks nicer overall. The Yoto mini is what I got for my daughter and she loves it.

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Harling, do you by chance have a rec for an extra large hair claw clip that can handle a full head of long curly hair? I have a large one from the brand chunks but it looks like they no longer make it!

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I don't have kids of my own but definitely checking these links out for my toddler nephews :) Thank you!! Love that you included your past year links, too.

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i've never been so tempted by shopping than when shopping for baby. The choices seem even more infinite (i feel like it's easier to make clothes for babies? like i'm not a hat person yet think babies should wear a million different adorable ones), coupled with the fleetingness of each stage. i'm thankful of the foundation of ignoring anything that isn't a natural material, remind myself that i have plenty of cute hand-me-downs, and that babies look cutest rustling about in their birthday suit, anyways--no outfit can compete with that.

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